We tend to overlook the importance of role models. Both having and being a role model can greatly impact our overall emotional health and well-being.
HOW TO BE A BETTER ROLE MODEL
Showing up is 90% of the job. It is important for children to have a
positive role model present in their life.
- Find ways to connect and engage with your children, young relatives,
or young people who you know. - Find common interests and align yourselves to things you have in
common. Children connect well when they can communicate about
things that matter to them.
Crosswinds Tip:
Children tend to connect and relax more over food or drink. Try spending
time over a meal, or even just a soda, and get to know what support your
child needs from a role model.
STRENGTHENING YOUR RELATIONSHIP WITH YOUR PARENT OR ROLE MODEL
If you’re looking for a way to strengthen your relationship with a parent
or role model, try these steps:
- Be Intentional: Make an effort to connect regularly. This could be
over the phone, in-person, over lunch, etc. - Be Prepared: Make sure you know what you want to connect on.
Whether you want to bond over a sports team, hobby, or learn
something new about your parent or role model, be purposeful in
your discussion. - Celebrate Milestones: Be sure to include them in your life
celebrations. This could be paying off a home, starting a new job, or
anything that’s important to you. By doing this you are providing the
opportunity to invite intimacy and attachment to your relationship.
